TRUST ISSUES 

 

DEFINITION Trust is believing  in the integrity of someone, that they are who they say they are and will do what they said they will do.  It is believing with confident expectation.  Biblically, trust is a firm reliance, assurance, and belief on God and His Word.  When someone has “trust issues”, it means they lack trust in a person, a relationship, or God.

FACTS ABOUT TRUST:

Trust can be misplaced.  When dealing with others, your trust can be misplaced and you can be disappointed.  This can result in what is termed “trust issues”, where you have difficulty trusting someone because of disappointments in the past.

Trust in God is never misplaced.  The Psalmist said:  “Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God” (Psalm 20:7).

Trust is actually an expression of your faith in God.   By trusting God, you are showing that you have assurance that He is who He says He is and that His Word is true.  Trust also provides assurance of your salvation and eternal destiny.

DEALING WITH  TRUST:

Ask God to heal your trust issues.  If you have difficulty trusting God or others because of past experiences, ask the Lord to heal these emotions.

Ask forgiveness if you have been untrustworthy. Ask God to forgive you and ask the person you failed to forgive you.

Do not rely on man. This is not to say you should not trust people, but your main trust should be in the Lord.  Do not place your trust in untrustworthy people (Proverbs 25:19). 

Place your trust in God.  Rely on the Lord because He will never fail you (Romans 10:11).

 

WHAT GOD’S WORD SAYS ABOUT  TRUST:

The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.  (Deuteronomy 31:8)

And those who know Your name will put their trust in You; For You, Lord, have not forsaken those who seek You. (Psalm 9:10, NKJV)

Help, Lord for the godly are no more; the faithful have vanished from among men. (Psalms 12:1)

Some trust in chariots and some in horses., but we trust in the name of the Lord our God. (Psalm 20:7)

For the king trusts in the Lord; through the unfailing love of the Most High he will not be shaken. (Psalm 21:7)

To you, 0 Lord, I lift up my soul; in you I trust, 0 my God.  O my God, I trust in You; Let me not be ashamed; Let not my enemies triumph over me. (Psalm 25:1-2)

In You, O Lord, I put my trust; Let me never be ashamed; Deliver me in Your righteousness. (Psalm 31:1,NKJV)

I trust in you, O Lord; I say, “You are my God.”  (Psalm 31:14)

Many are the woes of the wicked, but the Lord’s unfailing love surrounds the man who trusts in him. (Psalm 32:10)

In him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in his holy name. (Psalm 33:21)

Trust in the Lord and do good. (Psalm 37:3)

Blessed is the man who makes the Lord his trust.  (Psalm 40:4)

I am like an olive tree flourishing in the house of God; I trust in God’s unfailing love forever and ever. (Psalm 52:8)

But as for me, I trust in you. (Psalm 55:23)

When I am afraid, I will trust in you.  In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid. What can mortal man do to me?  (Psalm 56:3-4)

Trust in him at all times, 0 people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge. (Psalm 62:8)

You are my God; save your servant who trusts in you. (Psalm 86:2)

I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress; My God, in Him I will trust.”  (Psalm 91:2)

It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in man. It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in princes.  (Psalm 118:8-9)

Those who trust in the Lord are like Mount Zion, which cannot be shaken but endures forever. (Psalm 125:1)

Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. (Psalm 143:8)

Do not put your trust in princes, Nor in a son of man, in whom there is no help.  (Psalm 146:3, NKJV)

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and, he will make your paths straight.  (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Like a bad tooth or a lame foot  is reliance on the unfaithful in times of trouble.  (Proverbs 25:19)

Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe.  (Proverbs 29:25)

Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal. (Isaiah 26:4)

Let him who walks in the dark, who has no light, trust in the name of the Lord and rely on his God. (Isaiah 50:10)

This is what the Lord says: “Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who depends on flesh for his strength  and whose heart turns away from the Lord.”  (Jeremiah 17:5)

Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. (Jeremiah 17:7)

Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.  So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?  And if you have not been trustworthy with someone else’s property, who will give you property of your own?   (Luke 16:10-12)

Anyone who trusts in him (God) will never be put to shame.  (Romans 10:11)

I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him for that day. (2 Timothy 1:12)

If we are faithless, he will remain faithful, for he cannot disown himself. (2 Timothy 2:13)

Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. (John 14:1)

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